Iowa wedding planner for the offbeat and wildly in love.
Boring Weddings Hate it Here
Intimate, authentic, bespoke
Bespoke Socials creates heartfelt celebrations with offbeat couples. We serve as a resource and advocate for those who want to color outside the wedding lines, elevating joy with generous support for thoughtful intention. With wedding industry insight, rebellious creativity, and pretty spreadsheets, we create an authentic expression of your unique love story.
Choose your adventure
...Cabin wedding weekends with a handfasting, bonfires, and s'mores
...Garden elopements with live music and sunset picnics
...AirBnb weddings with a spiritual ceremony, yard games, and best friend officiants
...Black tie dinner cruise weddings with intricate tablescapes
...Vow renewal getaways with lots of adventures, romance, and surprises
...This is gonna be fun!
Intimate Wedding Planning
From "Yes!" to "I Do", and everything in between. We're with you every step of the process for a custom celebration
It's perfect for thoughtful couples who want to celebrate their marriage and connect with their tribe in a unique way. You get thoughtful advice, logistical support, creative direction, and complete event management.
Partial Wedding Planning
Key services and support where it makes the biggest impact.
It's great for chill celebrations and elopements with fewer logistics. and perfect for my organized lovers who need just a bit of wind beneath their wings. You get structure, check-ins, and day-of coordination.
Pass off the big picture then have fun with the details.
You get to make selections from detailed mood boards and designs, then approve the plan as it materializes. It crosses inventory management, vendor communication, delivery coordination, and set up/tear down logistics off your list.
Meet Your Planner
Hey! I'm Keilah
Consider me your unique wedding guide.
I got my start with drag shows, retirement homes, and a love for managing what goes on behind the scenes. In short, I'm used to thinking on my feet and taking my time. I appreciate what makes people unique. Heartfelt celebrations that leave a meaningful impact is one way I try to put more good into the world.
I canceled my wedding in 2014, and walked into my alternative celebration just ready to get it over with. Somehow I walked out with a greater appreciation for what really matters, and I'm on a mission to help others celebrate that way from the start.
"I am just so glad I found you and decided to get a planner to help with this. This is going to be such an amazing wedding for us, there's no way I could have pulled all this off on my own. I am SO excited about the ceremony and cocktail reception by the river. All the helpful advice and tips along the way have also been SO very helpful, keep them coming! Your help has allowed me to maintain my excitement about the whole thing and not let me stress over planning drown that out." -Megan M.
Step One: Reach out!
Describe your wedding ideas, who you are, and what you're excited about. Don't know where to start? Tell us that, too! We'll show you how we can help.
Step Two: Questionnaire!
Hint: this will be the first of several questionnaires. Let's get some big picture details and make sure we're on the same page. If we are...
Step Three: Let's Meet!
By now we're both pretty excited! It's time to meet and make sure we vibe. I'll prepare a custom proposal for exactly how I'll help you with your wedding, and you can ask any questions.
Step Four: Let's Make it Official
You'll get some info to consider as well as some digital paperwork. Once you're ready, you can take care of everything online. $500 gets us started and reserves your date.